Kurekura Ibyishimo: uruhande rukinira umunwa gikora muri BDSM

Ku bijyanye no gucukumbura isi yose ya BDSM, abantu benshi bakunze kwitondera insanganyamatsiko witonze, batazi icyo bagomba gutegereza. Imwe mubyerekeranye cyane bishobora kongeramo impinduramano nziza kumuntu wawe wa hafi ni ugucomeka kumunwa. Ibi bikoresho bishimishije ntabwo byongera uburambe gusa ahubwo bikingura urugi rwa psychologiya ishobora kuzamura isano iri hagati yawe na mugenzi wawe. Noneho, reka twive mwisi yumunwa acomeka turebe uko zishobora kumena ubuzima bwawe bwurukundo!

Ubwa mbere, reka dusobanure ibyo BDSM. Bitandukanye n'imyizerere ikunzwe, ntabwo ari uruhererekane rw'ibiboko n'iminyururu gusa, nta nubwo ari ibibera muri firime ya porunogarafiya. Kubwingenzi, BDSM ivuga kubyerekeye kwizerana, kubyemera, no gutumanaho hagati yabafatanyabikorwa. Nuburambe bwuje urukundo butuma abashakanye bashakisha ibyifuzo byabo mubidukikije neza kandi byugarije. Umunwa gag - propho yongeraho ikintu cyamayobera no kwishima kugirango ibintu byawe byimbitse. Tekereza gushimishije cyo kureka kuyobora, gutegereza neza ibiza, no gukinisha bishobora gutemba iyo utangiza iyi mikino yo gukina.

Noneho, reka tuvuge ibihugu ubwabyo. Iki gikoresho cyiza gike cyateguwe kugirango umunwa wuwambaye ufunguye, utere ibyiyumvo bidasanzwe bishobora kongera irari ryimibonano mpuzabitsina. Igishushanyo mbonera cya gag kirimo umwobo wo kwemerera amacandwe gutemba, bishobora kuganisha ku byiyumvo byo mu mutwe byo guteterezwa no gutabara. Ariko ntutinye! Ntabwo ari ibintu bitameze neza; Nukugaragaza imipaka no gusunika imipaka muburyo bushimishije. Gukangura amashusho no guterana biterana ubushuhe bwamacandwe birashobora kuba ibintu byinshi, byongeramo igice cyibyishimo mugihe cyo gukina. Byongeye kandi, uko gag ihindura mugenzi wawe abitabiriye ubushake mumikino yo kureshya nta gushidikanya.

Birumvikana ko ari ngombwa gusuzuma ikoreshwa rya gag neza. Itumanaho ni urufunguzo rwibanzeho, kandi tuganira ku mbibi, amagambo meza, n'ibyifuzo mbere yuko haza neza ko impande zombi zumva ko zikumva kandi zishimishije kuburambe. Wibuke, intego ni uguteza imbere ubucuti nimiseno, ntabwo ari ugutera ikibazo cyangwa ubwoba. Niba rero uri ishyaka rya BDSM rifite uburambe cyangwa amatsiko nshya, ukoresheje gags mugikinisho cyawe birashobora kuba inzira ishimishije kandi ikina kugirango ikore ibipimo bishya byibyishimo hamwe.

Muri make, gags ntabwo ari props; ni irembo ryimikorere yimbitse nubunararibonye. Mugukira uruhande rukinira BDSM, wowe na mugenzi wawe barashobora gutangira urugendo rwuzuye kwizerana, gushakisha, kandi, byukuri, kwishimisha cyane. Noneho kuki utafata plunge hanyuma wongere gag mubikoresho byawe byo gukusanya ibikoresho byimbitse? Urashobora gusanga gusa ko ufungura isi yibyishimo ntabwo wigeze uzirikana!