Mwisi yubushakashatsi bwimbitse, ibikoresho byiza birashobora guhindura uburambe busanzwe muburyo budasanzwe. Kumenyekanisha uruhu rwiza cyane Uruhu rwashyizweho, umucakara witonze wagenewe abishimira ibintu byiza mubuzima. Yakozwe mu ruhu nyarwo, ibi ntabwo byerekana ubwiza gusa ahubwo nanone byemeza kuramba no guhumurizwa. Waba ufite ishyaka ryinshi cyangwa amatsiko nshya, uruseringo rwabitswe ningereranyo ryuzuye kubijyanye no gukusanya, bikakwemerera gushakisha ibyifuzo byawe bikoresheje ikizere nuburyo.
Ku mutima wa BDSm yacu ya BDSm ya BDSm ni ubwitange bwubwiza nubukorikori. Buri gicuruzwa cyateguwe neza kugirango umenye neza ko bidasa neza gusa, ahubwo ni kandi imikorere idafite isoni. Uruhu nyarwo rwakoreshejwe mubucakara rwacu rworoshye gukoraho, nyamara rukomeye kugirango rwihanganire gukinira. Inshingano zacu ni ugukorana nibibi biha agaciro igishushanyo kidasanzwe, kandi iyi seti ni Isezerano kuri iyo filozofiya. Twizera ko buri kintu kirambuye, kandi BDSm yacu igaragaza ko twiyemeje gutanga ibicuruzwa byongera uburambe bwawe mugihe ushyize imbere umutekano no guhumurizwa.
Niki gishyiraho uruhu rwiza uruhu rwatandukanije ni byinshi. Iyi midugudu ikubiyemo ibintu bitandukanye byingenzi kugirango uhuze ibyifuzo bitandukanye nurwego rwinararibonye. Kuva kumapingu bihumuka, buri gice cyagenewe gutera imbere guhanga no gushakisha. Ibiranga Byahinduwe neza neza kuri buri wese, urashobora rero kwishoramo ibitekerezo bitabangamiye. Hamwe na seti yacu, urashobora guhinduka muburyo bworoheje urwenya cyane, utunganye kubashakanye bashaka kurenga ibihe byabo byimbitse.
Usibye igishushanyo mbonera cyinshi nimikorere, ibihuha byuruhu bya BDSm nibice bifata amaso. Imyandikire ikungahaye kandi ubwiza bwa kera bwuruhu rwose bwongerera ibintu muri rusange, ntabwo ari igikoresho cyo kwinezeza gusa, ahubwo ni umurimo wubuhanzi. Mugihe ugura bumwe mu bubata bwacu, ntabwo ugura ibicuruzwa gusa; Urakira imibereho yishimira guhanga no kwigaragaza. Uburambe bwacu mu nganda z'impuhwe byatwigishije ko kwinezeza nyabyo biri mu makuru arambuye, kandi twishimiye gutanga ibisebe byerekana iyi myizerere.
Kunyurwa kwabakiriya biri ku isonga mu nshingano zacu kandi dukora cyane kugirango buri mikoranire hamwe nibimenyetso byacu ari byiza. Twumva ko BDSM ishakisha irashobora kuba urugendo rwawe bwite kandi turi hano kugirango tugushyigikire buri ntambwe. Ibice byacu byiza byuruhu rwa BDSm byateguwe kugirango biguha imbaraga zo kwakira ibyifuzo byawe kandi bishakishe ibipimo bishya byibyishimo. Hamwe no kwiyemeza ubuziranenge, guhanga udushya no kwita kubakiriya, urashobora kumenya neza ko ufata ishoramari ryubwenge mubuzima bwawe bwimbitse. Uzamure uburambe bwawe hamwe nuruhu rwacu rudahwitse uruhu rutanga uyumunsi kandi tuvumbuye imbaraga zukuri zo guhanga nubukorikori.
Igihe cyo kohereza: Ukuboza-23-2024
